The Line Between Phone Sex Fantasy and Reality

It rained all weekend.  I am not complaining because it hasn’t rained in, what feels like, months.  It was a great weekend to play catch up on some things around the house and to get caught up on my blog writing.  I write blogs for all of the many characters that I portray on various phone sex sites, some of which I own and some that I do not own but work on as an independent contractor.

Almost every girl that I know who works in the phone sex industry plays multiple characters and there are many men out there who make it their personal goal to “figure out” which girl is which when it comes to their characters on a site.

Some callers don’t want to know as they feel that it ruins the image of the person in their mind.  They would just rather “believe” that the girl that they are talking to is the girl in the picture.  Other’s just have to know.  I always say that curiosity killed the cat.  Enjoy the personality of the person you are speaking with.  Get lost in her voice and the conversation.  When you can just “go with the flow” and not worry about the unimportant details, the call is much better.

Asking about my age and what I look like is okay but when a caller gets obsessed about my looks, my age, etc., I lose interest in him AND his fantasy and tend to want to get him off of the phone as quickly as possible.  It isn’t because I have anything to hide – it’s because this is a fantasy phone sex line and sometimes callers have a hard time balancing fantasy with reality.

I actually had a disagreement recently with a girl that I had hired on as an independent contractor to take calls at my service.  She worked at several different services and even had a site of her own where she took calls.  The disagreement arose when she told me that she often talked to men “off of the clock.”  These were guys that she took a personal interest in and enjoyed speaking with.  Now, I have to say that there a quite a few callers that I enjoy talking with, both sexually and on a more personal level, but crossing that line and allowing them to call me just for fun is not an option.  When she told me that she would talk to clients from other services that she worked for without charging them, I told her that I thought of that as a form of stealing.  She disagreed.  She did tell me that she always asked the owners of the services if they allowed this type of communication to go and she said that they did so it wasn’t ever a problem.  She thought that she had asked me as well, when she first began taking calls at my service and I assured her that there is no possible way that I would ever have approved of that and I ended up removing her characters from my site.  She was stunned that I would take such drastic action being as she had never done this at my service – or so she said.  I really had no way of knowing if she had or had not.

My issues arose with her belief that a caller will continue to call other girls at a service – and PAY for those calls – even though he is getting free calls with her.

My other issue is that of advertising and promoting a site.  It takes a LOT of work in this very competitive industry to get your site seen and gain callers through those efforts.  Why would I put in the many hours of work to draw a caller to my site, only to have a girl who works for that site take the caller that I have attracted and do calls with him for free?

This girl was a very hard worker, very smart too.  I hated to part ways with her but first and foremost, this is a business.  Once again I say…. we always need to be aware of the line between fantasy and reality.

There you have it…. a rainy Monday morning rant.  Now on a side note, I got a great night of sleep and have already made three men cum this morning, and it’s only 9:49 a.m.  I am looking forward to a great day!

Want to know what I talked about during those calls?  Call me and I will share some of the dirty details!

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Jean – 1-866-855-9233

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Email Me:  jean@behindthephonesexline.com

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