The “Getting Caught” Phone Sex Fetish

One of “D’s” biggest turn-on’s is getting caught in a compromising position by his wife. That is only one of the things that gets him going though.  She has caught him playing the phone sex game before and when he told me that she had left him because of it I stopped taking his calls.  I am not a home wrecker and honestly, after learning how many years this man has been married, I couldn’t stand the thought of her leaving him because of the calls that he does with me.  Maybe I’m too honest for this profession (as I have been told in the past), I don’t know, but I never planned to take his calls again after he told me about the break-up.

He continued calling my number, emailing and messaging me on Yahoo asking me why I wasn’t taking his calls any longer but I wouldn’t respond.  I wanted to completely distance myself from his situation but after a few months I finally broke down and told him the reason.  He told me that he and his wife had worked out their differences and that she realized that he wasn’t going to stop partaking in his phone sex pleasure and that while she didn’t like it, she has accepted it.  Do I believe his story?  I don’t know, but I decided to take his calls again to see how things go.

Now, about today’s call.   When I answered the phone he said that his wife was visiting a neighbor and he was jerking off while watching a porn movie that was demonstrating a sexual toy of some kind.  He said it really gets him turned on and I could hear the girl in the video moaning in the background while we talked.  I asked him if he was nervous about his wife possibly walking in on him while his dick was in his hand, the porn movie running on the computer and being on the phone with me.  He said he wasn’t too worried because he could see out the window and was able to watch for his wife.  It seemed like a lot to keep up with but he really enjoys the feeling that living on the edge gives him.

He told me that he thought it would be really hot if I would email his wife and tell her that he was doing phone sex again.  He imagined how pissed off she would be if she got an email like that from me and he wondered if she would want to try phone sex to see what it was all about.  He wanted me to set up a call with another man so that his wife could have phone sex with a stranger and he thought it would be great if I could get the guy to record the call so that “D” could listen to it.  He gets really turned on by the thought of his wife phone fucking another man – especially another caller of mine.

This sounded like it could be a pretty hot interlude but the reality is that most guys who call me for phone sex talk aren’t really looking for anything more than an erotic conversation with me.  They aren’t interested in bringing another man’s fantasy to life.

I actually have a handful of callers who try to get me to bring other people into their fantasy calls and while I appreciate their fantasies and how turned on it makes them when I disclose their fantasies to another person, a virtual stranger no less, it is not very easy for me to be able to make it happen.  Nor am I really interested in spending a lot of time trying to make it happen.

One caller, in particular, will spend hours instant messaging me, asking if there are any men on my buddy list who would like to join us for some phone fun.  Yes, I said hours and yes, I said MEN! During those hours he will constantly interrupt what I am doing whether it is blogging, talking on the phone with another caller, answering emails, etc.  If I tell him that I am on a call and will be right back, he will continue messaging me, asking what I am talking about with the other guy, telling me to ask the other guy if he wants to do a three-way call, and so on.  It can be extremely annoying!  This particular guy got himself blocked from being able to do calls with me when he took a 5-day vacation from his job and settled in to do calls and message me all day, every day, for the entirety of his vacation.  Now don’t get me wrong… if he was paying me to talk with him on the phone during that time that would have been one thing but he wanted to do several short calls throughout each day and send messages during the rest of the time, trying to get me to set up calls between him and other callers of mine and wanting me to ask my callers if they would allow him to listen in on their calls with me.

During times like these, I have to constantly remind myself that I am a PHONE SEX partner.  I am not a hook-up connection for discreet guy-on-guy encounters.  I am not online just to chit chat and kill time because I have nothing better to do.  I am online because I am working.  Phone sex is how I earn my living and while I really enjoy what I do, I find it to be a huge challenge when a caller wants to take it to a level that goes beyond the one-on-one phone sex call.  Some callers who have pushed me too far have been on the receiving end of my not-often-displayed anger and they can’t believe that this usually nice, polite and considerate person could get so harsh.  All I can say is…. don’t mistake my kindness for stupidity.

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 Jean – 1-866-855-9233

Calls are $2.00 per minute with a 10-minute minimum.  

Charges will show on your VISA/MC/DISC/AMEX statement as Web-Tokens.

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Email Me:  jean@behindthephonesexline.com

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A Daily Dose of Phone Sex

My favorite thing about being a phone sex provider is that you never really know what each day will bring.  I mean, of course the day is going to bring different types of erotic phone sex calls but you never know who is going to be calling and what they are going to be looking for or where our conversations might go before or after the dirty talk begins and ends.

Some fantasy phone sex callers are a lot more interesting (and likable) than others.  Quite frankly, over the years, my patience for some of my regular callers has been tested to the limits.  I can honestly say that I am not the type of person who would normally yell at somebody I’ve never met but there have been a handful of times that I have found myself being pretty direct with a caller who has pushed me over the top with something he has said or done.  What I find totally crazy is that some of the guys that have been the recipients of my verbal lashings have actually begged me to be mean to them the next time that they call me.  WHAT?  Yes, you heard that right.  A long time caller of mine once told me that I am always very nice to him but when I yelled at him one day for dialing my number over and over and over again while I was on the line with another caller, he got really turned on by my anger.  It’s not that I’m not nice – I am – most of the time, but when a person dials my number, over and over, like thirty times during a 10-minute call as this caller did, I tend to get testy and let my emotions get the best of me.  When I lose my patience, like I did that day, I like to think about what I have learned from the experience. That day, quite surprisingly, I learned that there are callers who want to see me as a real person and they want to see my raw emotions

Okay, so now you know a little about me….. one….. I like, but don’t necessarily LOVE all of the guys who call me and two… I am very nice, polite, professional, etc., but I do have my limits and won’t hesitate to let a caller know when he has reached them.

Today has actually been a pretty good day.  I logged on to take calls around 7:00 a.m. and as of 11:30 I’ve had five calls.  Most people think that the phones just ring and ring and ring, back to back, but that simply isn’t the case.  Every phone sex service is different. Every day is different.  Some days I can’t even grab a quick sandwich between calls and other days I go hours between calls.  I guess that uncertainty is what makes most girls quit this business.  A lot of girls are looking for a job where they can log on, make some money and log off.  It’s definitely not that easy.  Back when I first started in the phone sex industry (fifteen years ago) I literally took calls day and night and night and day.  If I was at home, no matter what I was doing at the time, I would answer the phone to take a call.  The long hours and hard work paid off for me though.  Today, I still have regular callers who have been talking to me since the day that I began.  You will hear a lot about some of those callers as I continue posting on this blog.

My first call this morning was with a guy (a new caller) who wanted me to cuckold him. Cuckold phone sex is a really popular subject and this guy wanted me to pretend to be his wife who was fucking her lover while her husband was at work.  I must have done a pretty good job because he hung up after two and a half minutes BUT gave me good feedback on the platform that he called from.  Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference if a 2-minute guy hangs up because he isn’t enjoying the call or if he hangs up because he enjoyed it TOO much and couldn’t hold back any longer.  In this case I was happy to see, through his feedback comments, that he enjoyed it very much.

The second call that I took this morning was from a guy who enjoys a more extreme phone sex experience.  I do get a lot of extreme fetish requests and honestly, those calls are the bread and butter of creativity.  Because I’m not really an extreme kind of person, in my real life, I really have to think outside the box in order to satisfy an extreme phone sex fetish craving.  Today’s extreme guy started out pretty vanilla, a blow job and some 69 but then he was feeling a little thirsty and wanted things to get a little more wild.

I’ve listened to a caller ride his brand new dildo while telling me what a cock whore he is and I heard the secret taboo confession of another caller who says that he posts pictures of his wife all over the internet for other guys to masturbate to.   The thought of being caught really turns him on.

The last call that I’ve done today was with a cross dressing pantyhose wearing guy who has a thing for mommy.  He wanted me to be his mommy and force him to masturbate while wearing a pair of mommy’s panties and pantyhose.  His calls are all over the place and if I have to be honest, I will say that he can be kind of difficult.  He loves to cross dress but within a 10-minute call we talk about mommy, strap on dildos, sissy, panty fetishes, pantyhose, high heels, cock sucking and more.  He likes to get a bang for his buck which isn’t a bad thing but I know that if he stuck to one or two topics during our call, he could have a much deeper experience rather than surface touching and bouncing around with many different subjects.

I hope you have enjoyed reading my first blog post and getting to know a little bit about me. Please bookmark my site and look for new posts that will be coming very soon.

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Jean – 1-866-855-9233

Calls are $2.00 per minute with a 10-minute minimum.  

Charges will show on your VISA/MC/DISC/AMEX statement as Web-Tokens.

Questions?  Comments?  

Email Me:  jean@behindthephonesexline.com

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