Intelligent Phone Sex Partner

I know that it has been a long time since I last posted anything on my blog.  I have been so busy over the past few months that I just haven’t had the time to sit and write.  I have, however, thought of many different things that I have want to write about.  My mind usually wanders when I am in the shower.  That is where I do my most organized thinking and today was no different.  As I lathered up and let the warm water rush over me, I started to think about how some of the men who call my line affect me on a day-to-day basis.

I decided that today I was going to write about what you get when you call a phone sex operator.  Maybe I should clarify that last statement to say “what you get when you call a phone sex operator like me,” one with some morals and dignity, one with intelligence, one that deserves a little bit more respect than some callers feel it necessary to provide.

I have encountered several phone sex operators at different services where I have worked in the past who have confided that they occasionally meet clients for real time sessions. One girl was a dominatrix and a fetish enthusiast and she told me that she would entertain men at her home and that some of those men were callers from the phone sex service where we both worked.  She confidently explained to me that “as long as there were no bodily fluids involved, being paid for “real time” interludes was not illegal.”  No matter what the legalities are (and I can assure you that this woman had zero legal experience other than maybe on the wrong side of the law), I have in no way ever even considered a real time meeting. Period. End of story.  I am a phone sex entertainer/fantasy maker and sometimes sexual confidante but I am most definitely not going to meet a caller in person.

Now… let me tell you about one particular caller of mine who thinks otherwise.

This gentleman began calling me on a platform that is open to any phone sex operator who creates an account with the service.  There are literally thousands of girls to choose from.  He is in his 80’s and he is very wealthy.  How do I know this? Quite simply, he tells me… every time that we are on the phone together.  Now you might, at this point of my story, think that I am being gullible and that this guy is, most likely, feeding me a line of bull. Remember the paragraph above where I said that I am intelligent?  After listening to him brag about his financial success throughout many different calls to my line, I decided to Google him and found that he was, just as he had said, very successful and very wealthy. He often sends me pictures of the very elaborate parties that are thrown at his home.  The pictures depict expensive buffet dinners of fresh shellfish, beef filet’s, etc., which sit on tables that are decorated with huge floral arrangements in gorgeous vases. He also sends pictures of his home which is quite impressive as well as his gardens which are immaculate with fountains and statues among the most beautiful flowers. He recently had a home built in another state – a vacation home that he told me cost 3 million to build.  I have also seen pictures of that home in various stages of construction and I have to say that it is amazing.  His preferred method of travel is by private jet and he loves sharing stories about his close friends who often travel with him and his wife.  Okay…. back to my story.

Something in my advertisement for phone services caught his attention and he has called me regularly for a little over a year.

At first he was polite and although the topics of conversation were sexual in nature with us sharing fantasies, stories, etc., somewhere along the line he decided that he wanted to meet me.  Let me say that again….. HE decided that he wanted to meet me.  Never, not even once in any of our many conversations have I ever led him to believe that this was a possibility.  In fact, never in all of the years that I have been in the phone sex industry have I ever led a caller to believe that he could possibly meet me one day.  I do know girls who have flirted with callers, told them that they loved them, promised all kinds of things to them just to keep reeling them in but I am not one of those ladies.

I have plenty of regular callers and I have built a very good clientele throughout the years and I have done it without ever having made any false promises.  I once had a caller tell me that I was too honest for this industry – ha, ha.  I have never forgotten that statement.

I’m off track again…. okay – so back to the wealthy older gentleman.  One day he called me and asked me why I had not been logged on much over the past few days.  I told him that my car had blown a transmission and that I had been busy on the phone with tow truck companies, shopping for prices to get the car repaired, talking to rental car companies, etc.  He said that I sounded a bit stressed when I answered the phone and I told him that the situation had been quite stressful.  He then asked me for my address and said that he would like to send me a little something, a gift, to cheer me up.

This isn’t really all that unusual of a request.  Like I said, I have several callers who have been calling me for years and they will occasionally want to send me something for a holiday, birthday or sometimes “just because.”  For that reason, I have a post office box that I ask gifts to be sent to as I have never disclosed (nor will I ever disclose) the address of my private residence.

I gave this gentleman the address to my post office box and several days later he called to tell me that I should be on the lookout for his gift.  I will admit that I was a bit intrigued and couldn’t imagine what he might be sending.  When I received the envelope, I was pleasantly surprised with what he had sent and I immediately thanked him for the gift, assuring him that I loved it.  He asked that I think of him every time I wore it and I told him that I would.  What happened next is what began the decline in my enthusiasm for taking his calls.  Apparently, he felt that his gift was more like a payment so that he could have more than just a telephone relationship with me.

He began to plan “business” trips to my hometown so that he could have me come to his hotel room and he could… as he so eloquently put it “fuck me in the ass.”  Imagine how hard it was to turn THAT down.  Ha!

This same man once told me that he doesn’t like the fact that I am a phone sex entertainer.  He said that it is a bit demeaning, in his eyes.  He then offered to pay me $1,000 a month and then I would no longer have to be in this line of work.  BUT… in order for him to pay me, I would have to allow him to fly me to his home state once a month so that he could fuck me.  He also assured me that all expenses would be paid.  Again, what a bargain that would be for me.  He also acted as if I should feel incredibly grateful for this offer.  What he doesn’t realize is that nobody could live on $12,000 a year AND what he was offering me was ILLEGAL!

I do still take his calls (talk time = income for me).  I would be stupid not to.  He is, after all, not afraid to spend his money on phone sex entertainment but that is all that he is going to ever get from me.  He is entitled to a listening ear when he wants to complain about his wife, a telephone partner who is willing to talk dirty with him, even a mutual masturbation session now and then (sometimes real, sometimes not).  What he is not entitled to is a paid escort.

Sometimes when I get off of the phone with him, I feel totally disgusted and I question why I continue to work in this industry.

The reason that I do is simple.  For every one caller that feels entitled to more, there are several who appreciate me as an individual and treat me with the respect that I feel I deserve and that I am entitled to.

More later….

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Jean – 1-866-855-9233

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Email Me:  jean@behindthephonesexline.com

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